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June 27, 2008

Last One Standing.

"The greatest accomplishment is not in never falling, but in rising again after you fall." -- Vince Lombardi

My daughter Grace has been standing for a few weeks and is now learning to cruise.  During an attempt yesterday, she fell on her face.

Undeterred (after a frustrated cry or two), she stood back up, took a small step and. . . landed on her butt.

And with this experience, she illustrated a point that all of us would do well to remember:

  1. Have no fear.
  2. Push your limits.
  3. If you fall (fail), stand back up, brush yourself off and try again -- using the wisdom from your fall to take you further than before.

Failure is an essential part of life.  Embrace it.  After all, if you don't land on your butt a few times, you won't know how to avoid it in the future.

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"It is a mistake to suppose that men succeed through success; they much oftener succeed through failures. Precept, study, advice, and example could never have taught them so well as failure has done." -- Samuel Smiles

June 20, 2008

How Much Do You REALLY Know?

Finding a way to put today's message into words was challenging.  Then I remembered this scene from Good Will Hunting:

The lesson Sean conveys to Will is powerful, but the emotions generated in the way he conveys it is even moreso.  I wonder if the message would've resonated the same if it had been left only to written word.

Which is exactly the point of what I wanted to share with you (and remind myself of) . . . 

Book smart is one thing.  Knowledge through experience is something else.

The technical knowledge we gather from books is critical -- without it, it's hard to build understanding about this life we're trying to be a part of.  But if we limit our knowledge to books - even if we've read every piece of material that exists on a topic; even if it's the most in-depth knowledge that written word can share - do we really know as much as we think?

One of the greatest challenges we face is going beyond our mind and feeling life as we live it.  Feeling requires and openness to being vulnerable.  Being vulnerable pushes you to face your fears. . . and defeat them.

Make an effort to TOUCH, SMELL, TASTE, HEAR and SEE all that life has to offer.  It's not easy, but a concerted effort to do so can save you from going through life without "having the faintest idea of what you're talking about."

June 18, 2008

Appointment with Change.

Courtesy_of_sonomaedu"Be assured that you'll always have time for the things you put first."   -- Liane Steele

"I need to take care of the kids. . ."

"Work at the office is piling up. . ."

"I'll be traveling all week. . ."

"I've got an early morning business meeting. . ."

"I've got a business dinner. . ."

Okay.  You're busy.  But these same responsibilities existed when you were working with a trainer.  You  consistently scheduled (and followed through with) your appointments then. . .

How is now any different just because you're training on your own?

Make a point to physically schedule training time into your day. . . and then respect that time as you would any other appointment or meeting.

"Time to train" won't just magically appear for you -- you've got to create it and obligate yourself to it whether you're using a coach. . . or coaching yourself.

June 15, 2008

A Bit of Father's Day Wisdom.

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You've probably noticed that I've got a soft spot for inspirational quotes.  So, as we recognize this Father's Day, I thought I'd share a few of my favorites from H. Jackson Brown's A Father's Book of Wisdom.

Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anyone else expects of you.  Never excuse yourself. -- Henry Ward Beecher

Challenges can be stepping stones or stumbling blocks.  It's just a matter of how you view them. -- Unknown

When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced.  Live your life in such a manner that when you die the world cries and you rejoice. -- Old Indian saying

Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear.  -- Mark Twain

Don't be afraid to take big steps.  You can't cross a chasm in two small jumps. -- David Lloyd George

What matters is not the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog.  -- Coach Bear Bryant

May_10_2008_011 It's not how far you fall, but how high you bounce.  -- Dad

There is no experience better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up. -- John Andrew Holmer

Let your policy be quality.  -- Dad

There is no future in any job.  The future lies in the man who holds the job. -- George Crane

Never, never, never, never give up.  -- Winston Churchill

June 06, 2008

Foolproof Nutrition For Function and Fat Loss

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Dr. John Berardi has his Seven Habits of Highly Effective Nutritional Programs. My friends Eugene and Mike have their Nutritional Guidelines for Fat Loss.  And now you have my take on the subject, as shared personally with my clients. . . more often than they care to hear it.

How do they differ?  They really don't - with the exception of our unique delivery styles.  Of course, this is the least you should expect. . . especially when you're looking for consistency in nutrition and coaching advice.

Foolproof Nutrition for Function and Fat Loss

1. Listen to your body.  Don't obsess over it, but learn about it, understand it. . . just become aware of it.   With increased awareness,  you'll know what to eat. . . or at least realize which foods your body works best with.

2. Eat what you enjoy, but be realistic.  Two points here:

  • If "what you enjoy" is preventing you from getting healthy/burning fat, there's no way around it -- you've got to "eat what you enjoy," but minimally, if at all.
  • On the flip side, eating healthier is not synonymous with eating foods that you hate.  There are thousands of healthy, great foods (and great preparation styles) to choose from -- select foods that you love to eat, not those that are "ideal," but that you'd avoid even if it were the last bit o' food on Earth.

2a.  Don't confuse "healthy" with "optimal for function and fat loss."  Two more points: 

  • Overeating any food can make you fat. . . or make it difficult for to burn the excess you're storing.   
  • Many foods touted as "healthy" are labeled this way based on the "low-fat/high carb/heart-healthy"  paradigm that's been preached for years.  High carb (read: starch and sugar) is definitely not the key to inducing fat loss. . . and it's not a good prescription for long-term cardiovascular health either.

3.  Eat 4-6 meals per day.  Keep your body's metabolism working efficiently by eating at 2-3 hour intervals.

3a.  Make sure one of those meals is always BREAKFAST.  Yes, it really is the most important meal of the day. . .

4.  Eat protein at EVERY meal.  As Paul Chek would say, "Eat something with eyes, or something that comes from something with eyes. . ."

5.  Eat a vegetable (or fruit) at EVERY meal.  Whole food, high fiber, low starch/sugar, nutrient rich carbohydrates are ideal. . .

6.  Don't compartmentalize!  In other words, avoid eating "just protein" or "just carbs" at a meal.  Combine macronutrients as you need to (per #4 and #5) and as your body "asks" for.  Doing this not only provides the body with what it needs, it enables it to metabolize the food as efficiently as possible.

7. Drink water!  At least half your bodyweight in ounces each day . . .

8. Minimize consumption of processed /starchy/sugary food and beverages.  Especially if you've got health issues or have significant body fat to lose.  If you're going to eat them (you really shouldn't be if you've got health/body fat issues), when's the best time?  Post-training.

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The foundation for health, fitness, function, fat loss -- whatever it is that you're trying to improve -- is always going to start with nutrition. 

Quality nutrition:

  • gives you the high quality building blocks you need to build every cell/hormone/ transport molecule in your body.
  • provides the energy for every cell - for every life process - to function. 
  • is about more than just "energy in vs. energy out."  It creates an internal environment of optimal structure and peak physiological function.

So, hang these guidelines (or the others shared above) from your fridge.  Place them on your bedside table.  On your bathroom mirror.  On your desk at work.  Study and absorb them -- because commitment to these universal principles will provide the foundation for function and fat loss most of the time.   

June 01, 2008

The Magic Pill for Improved Health and Fitness.

Unfortunately. . . there isn't one.Courtesy_of_wwwcelebrityslimcom

Actually, that's not true.  There is a magic pill, but it's not the source most of us think it is:

  • the "best" training equipment and technology
  • the "best" supplements or medications
  • the "best" clothing and shoes

None of these are the answer, the magic pill that will bring us all of the improvements that we desire.

None of these.

The answer, the medicine, the magic pill for our progress is within us.  We have to find it - and use it - to enable the above-mentioned tools to work best toward our cause.